If you’re like me, your creative brain is a hamster wheel, always thinking of what to do next, dreaming of a new story idea, and feeling on edge if there’s no time to sit at the computer to write. I’ve been like this for years, needing me-time to gather thoughts and plot out a new story. It’s why I love my mornings. It’s just me and a cup of coffee in a quiet space until the kids get up, and then I put my craft on hold until the later part of the day unless plans change. Lately though, time seems to be moving at lightning speed. It’s been a fun, packed summer. I can’t believe it’s almost over. We made so many memories. There was a family trip to France, a trip to Vancouver Island to see family and friends, and I published another book— that lasted a month and two days.
Let me explain. Earlier this year, I wrote Return to Pebble Beach, at the same time I signed with my agent. I had set my publishing date for mid-July, as a beach read, but it meant I had to get my edits completed, a book cover made, all in a short timeframe because I was heading to France at the end of June. 
It seemed fine. After all, it wasn’t my first published book.
However, self-publishing is a unique path because a writer must do everything. Even if they’re hiring professionals, it’s a lot of coordination, time-consuming, and planning. Some authors love it and are really good at it, but it can be mentally draining if it’s out of their comfort zone or the expectations are set too high. We’ve all seen the self-publishing authors who are best-sellers, or the ones who have a decent following on social media. What we don’t see is what it takes to get noticed.

​My point is, self-publishing isn’t for everyone, but those who do it have my respect. They are self-motivated and organized!
Return to Pebble Beach was published on July 22, 2026. It seemed like a reasonable time to publish a beach read. It would give me time during the summer to promote before heading into the fall routine. Less than a month after publication, a very kind reader brought something to my attention that had me cringe with embarrassment. It’s not something I want to openly admit. I hate making mistakes, especially ones that could have easily been prevented had I hired a proofreader. 
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I’m sharing my uncomfortable situation because I want to help other authors either prevent a mistake or give a virtual hug to say, you’re not alone and it’s okay. We are human. Things happen, but it doesn’t make you less of a writer because of a typo or spelling mistake. 
Thankfully, my writing bestie reminded me of how full my life is right now and that mistakes can be fixed. I needed to hear it from someone who knows me. Another author who understands the highs and lows. It’s not easy. It’s why I want to share and give some honest thoughts about self-publishing.  
Here are 5 things to consider when self-publishing:

​I believe everything happens for a reason, and it’s good to learn from mistakes. It will only make an author better through understanding others and perfecting the craft. 
After a month and two days, I delisted my book to fix the errors. I hired a professional proofreader and will republish when the time is right. It’s the benefit of self-publishing.

Will I self-publish another book? Maybe? I’m not planning on it, but there may be a short story or novella to share for my newsletter subscribers.
For now, I’m leaving publishing to the experts. 

Happy writing,
​Charlene

My book, Return to Pebble Beach, will be published in just a few days, and I’m nervous. I always am when releasing a new book. Will readers like it? Will they criticize my characters? Will they complain about my hero because he’s a hockey player and I didn’t write him playing the sport? (Sorry, spoiler alert). There is always worry when publishing a new story. As much as I anticipate the reviews, I remind myself I’m doing what I love. I chose to share what I write in the hope of bringing entertainment or an escape for readers. Providing art for someone’s enjoyment is my intention. 
Earlier this year, I signed with an agent, Michelle Jackson, whom I’m very excited to be working with. I love her enthusiasm for my stories, her encouragement, and positivity. She’s what I hoped for in an agent, and I can’t wait to see what we can do. 
Before signing with Michelle, I was finishing rewrites for Return to Pebble Beach. I chose to self-publish because while the submission process can be long, I wanted to share a beach read set in Canada and Return to Pebble Beach was born.  

​Set in a fictional town and inspired by Qualicum Beach, British Columbia, a place I enjoy visiting. The unique seaside town was the perfect place for Liam and Addison to reacquaint. Besides chemistry, they share a common love for fitness and family. 
While the heroine, Addison is a personal trainer, a profession I’m actively pursuing, I needed a hero who was passionate about the same things and because they both don’t live in Pebble Beach, creating a hockey hero was the best profession for Liam. He wasn’t living there by choice and as he learns about what he wants, it means he needed to be honest with himself and steal Addison’s heart again in process. 
While Addison is struggling to find herself, coming back to Pebble Beach was supposed to be the answer to her wondering, except she didn’t expect Liam on her journey. 
Although she resists a relationship with Liam, the temptation for him is real and she must figure out what love truly means.  
While we follow Liam and Addison’s love story, there is also Harmony, Addison’s sister, who is trying to navigate her own journey. I didn’t realize I would create a secondary character who might have an untold story that could be worth pursuing. My intent was for Return to Pebble Beach to be a stand-alone, and maybe it will, but I do think about what Harmony’s path would look like if I wrote it. Her story is in the back of my mind, so you never know if there will be a book two. 

If you read Return to Pebble Beach, do you think Harmony needs her happily-for-now?
I’d love to know what you think.
If you enjoy my story, may I ask you to write a review on Goodreads or where you purchased it? 
I’m always grateful for your review and of course, for reading.
After all, you’re the reason I write to publish my books. 
 
Until next time,
Happy reading! 

​Charlene

I celebrated a milestone birthday yesterday, and it wasn’t one I thought I’d be okay with, because turning 50 sounded much older than my 30s-40ish brain. I certainly don’t feel any older, and that’s a good thing because I need my zest for life to show up in my 20-30-year-old-ish heroines. It’s what I love about writing younger characters. The joy of experiencing new things and finding love in unexpected ways. It’s also a time when dreams are big, and the heart yearns for accomplishment. 
If I were to ask my younger self about where I would be in my author life, I think I would have said I’d have written a dozen or more books by age 50 and be consistently attending writing conferences. I’d be doing summer retreats and showing up for publishing events. 
The reality is, the author's life is different for everyone. There is no right or wrong way to be an author; it just takes determination, hard work, luck, and a whole lot of love for writing. 
I wish someone had told me, as a young writer, not to fret about getting an agent or publishing a book by a certain age, and that rejection is part of the process. Publishing is not an easy task. It’s why I wish I had been told these five things when I was a young writer to keep going.

​It’s okay to be rejected even if you’re a professional writer.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a best-seller or querying agencies; every writer will experience rejection multiple times before getting a yes. Being rejected means you’re not giving up, and you’ll keep trying until you get to where you want to be.
 
You’re always learning. 
Everything you experience, take it as a learning opportunity to write about it, or to grow in your profession. Life experience is what you need to connect with readers. Meeting new people and connecting with writers and industry professionals will build your career. 
 
Expect the unexpected.
The publishing industry changes. There can be new editors or new imprints, and new opportunities. Just because a writer has an agent or editor doesn’t mean that they’ll be with the author forever. Change happens. It’s part of the industry. 

​Give yourself credit even when you feel like you’ve failed.
Querying an agent, submitting a story to a publisher, or entering a contest. Just because you don’t get the answer you were hoping for doesn’t mean you’re failing. Every opportunity you give yourself is one step closer to accomplishment. 
 
Don’t compare yourself to others.
If you’re a writer, write. You don’t have to be anyone else but you. Make time to do what you love. Focus on your goals, not what someone else is doing. What you write is special to you and vice versa. Be supportive, stay positive, and love what you do.
 
An author’s life means a writer doing what they love and nurturing their muse.
You do this because you love it, not because you need to be someone else.
Celebrate your milestones in writing, in life, and find enjoyment in the little things. You deserve it!

I posted a thought on Twitter the other day to encourage the writing community. I didn’t think my tweet would resonate with anyone, let alone people liking the photo I shared, which was a trail I had gone on that past weekend.( photo below) It reminded me of a writer’s journey, with its winding path and the sliver of sunshine filtering through the tall cedars and poplars. It made me think of hope and encouragement, seeing the light come into full view when the trail ended. 

The words I shared? Your writing path is unique to you. Embrace the process.

Sometimes posting what we’re hoping to hear is the best motivator when we’re feeling low. It’s like a little voice in our head is pushing us to continue our journey even when we don’t feel so brave. 
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Writing is my passion, and when surrounded by a community of writers all wanting the same goal, it can be disheartening to see fellow writers accomplish the very thing you want. The truth is, every writer has their own path, and it’s something to remember when feeling discouraged. It’s easy to say, but for years, I was disappointed and convinced myself I was a terrible writer, telling myself that if I was good at what I do, I would be published. 
As creatives, we are sensitive to our emotions and the people around us, so I think it’s easy to mislead ourselves into thinking we’re not good when, in fact, it often comes down to timing and, as some say, luck. 

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​If you’re looking to find peace with your writing path, here are five ways to help you through it.

Get support from a friend.
A creative life can be lonely. Some of us don’t have cheerleaders at home to get us to the finish line. We depend on social media groups or friends in the same profession who understand the process and energy it takes to get to the next step. If you have support from a friend—ongoing, like a BFF who emails you back, returns phone calls, and responds to your Instagram memes. Someone you can connect with and who’s in your corner makes a huge difference. There’s nothing like communicating with someone who gets you.

Don’t give up.
It’s hard work. Everyone’s output is different, and we come from different backgrounds and experiences, so it’s only natural for us to walk our own paths. It’s what makes us unique, and we should embrace it and give ourselves grace through the process. Sometimes breaks are needed, and that’s okay. You’re doing this for you, right?
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It’s not a competition. 
Don’t compare yourself to others. It doesn’t help your creativity. You’ll put all the energy into something that doesn’t serve you. 

Support each other. 
Lifting each other up and encouraging someone’s art when you truly appreciate their talent is a great way to cheer someone on. We all have days when we don’t feel successful or feel down about what we do, so offering a pat on the back goes a long way.

Take a break.
Take a moment to enjoy an experience; not only does it give you a break from your craft, but it gives you something to write about.
The best creative thoughts are the ones without a computer. Experiencing nature is one of the reasons I love being outside. I think it has to do with the relaxation and letting thoughts flow freely. Taking a break doesn’t mean you’re not working. 

Your writing path is unique to you; it may give you the peace of mind to write from your heart instead of keeping up with someone else. It’s not a competition. It’s about supporting other creatives. Embracing the process means not being hard on yourself. Work hard on your art, but enjoy what you do. You’re creating because it makes you feel good, and you have something to share. ​

​*opinions are my own

Anything in life worth enjoying takes time and effort.
It’s why commitment to exercise, eating well (by prepping food at home), and social time with friends can sometimes get put on the back burner when other things take priority. 
Reading is one of them. 
The things worth enjoying are also the things that are good for our health. 
So, why aren’t we putting it first?
Well, it’s another topic for discussion, but the reality of doing the things we love should be a priority. It’s good for our overall health. 
Reading not only reduces stress and improves literacy ( obviously), but it is also beneficial for our brains. 
​A recent study conducted by Rio Salado College in Arizona published an article about the benefits of reading, and how it improves brain function and reduces mortality rates. While there is a list of benefits to reading, it takes time and energy, and sometimes there are days when it feels impossible to get lost in a book, even when you want to.
​Recently, a woman told me she was frustrated she hadn’t had time to read a physical book or listen to an audiobook. Life had her moving in different directions, and when she had the time, she was exhausted. 
It’s easy to feel disappointed when there isn’t time to open a book, and you’re craving an escape. 
When this happens, it’s better to give yourself a few days to recharge rather than force a reading experience you’re not enjoying. 

​My reading slump has nothing to do with my TBR pile or my lack of interest in finding a book. In fact, there are books I’m excited to read, and I can’t wait to have the time to relax and turn a page, but my creative brain is working overtime right now, and until I finish the projects I’m working on, I can’t start reading a new book until I can relax. 
If you’re in a slump but are slowly crawling out of it, like me, here are some suggestions to help you get back on track.

​1. Carry a book with you. If you’re running around, doing errands, and sitting at appointments, chances are, you’ll be waiting. I don’t have a Kindle, but I have the app on my phone. It’s a great option if your purse is full or you’re carrying light. 

2. Reward yourself. When you’re finished a task, whether it be writing a page, unloading the dishwasher, whatever it is, tell yourself you’re reading one chapter.

3. Borrow an audiobook. The Libby app is great. I find this so useful because I can borrow an audiobook and listen to it while I clean the house or drive to my next appointment. Listening to a book is better than not enjoying a good story.

4. Buy the book. The one you are excited to read. Like you’ve been waiting for this one for a long time, and finally it’s out. A gift to yourself to remind you that your health is important. 

5. Join a book club. If committing to a monthly book club is too much, commit to a friend who wants to read the same book. It makes for a fun discussion, and because you’re reading at the same time, you will be dedicated to finishing because you won’t want to let your friend down.

Are you in a reading slump? Is it because of the lack of time or because you haven’t found another book to read? Comment and let me know! 
Until next time,
Happy reading!

​*opinions my own.

​Your publishing journey is unique to you. 
There are no two authors with the same publishing journey, so why do we compare ourselves to other authors? It doesn’t help our creative process if we care so much about what others are doing instead of focusing on what we are doing to benefit ourselves.
It’s easy to get caught up in everyone else’s success when we have the same goals, but the truth is, we have different needs and wants for our art. Therefore, our publishing journey—whatever it is—self-published, traditionally published, or hybrid, is different for all of us. There is no wrong way.
​However, it’s hard when someone else is celebrating the very thing you’re working towards, especially when you’ve been on a roller coaster ride, and you’re not where you want to be.
At first, it may seem like the author appeared out of nowhere and suddenly they’re a bestseller, or it may seem like the writer received a contract on their first book. The truth is, to be successful, however it’s defined by an individual, takes a path to get there.
It’s not just about dreaming of being a published author; it’s about putting time and energy into doing what we love. Practicing your art, connecting with writers, attending events, submitting to editors, agents, or entering contests are all the things that benefit your career. These things aren’t about winning; they’re about honing your craft to be better and to learn the business so you can thrive in the publishing industry. 

My publishing journey has been a rocky one, and still, I continue to strive for my goals. I started writing novels at eighteen, rewriting while learning the craft. While working in my twenties, I submitted to publishing houses, including Harlequin Romance, while I queried literary agents. Over the years, through many rejections, I wrote His Game, Her Rules, inspired by my love of playing ice hockey and admiring the women who taught the professionals. While this story landed me an agent and a three-book deal, my high came to an end when my agent and I parted ways. At the time, I thought it would be easy to get another agent because I was traditionally published. It’s not the case. I received rejection after rejection. I was in a slump for years. I honestly thought, maybe I’m not cut out for this. Maybe my luck has run out, but I didn’t stop writing for the joy of storytelling. I sent out more query letters and submitted to publishing houses for their open calls. I wrote a story called Playing for Love. Another hockey player hero, and what do you know? A new publishing house accepted my submission, and I didn’t have an agent. I thought, okay, I made it again. Until Covid hit. My copy edits were done, I had a book cover, and then the publishing house announced it was closing. I was back in the query trenches.

Having these stories with nowhere to go was devastating. I wanted these stories published, and I didn’t want to waste any more time, so I self-published my Moonlight Valley series. While these stories were being published, I found a new agent who loved a story I submitted. Another series with a sports hero. It seemed to be my thing. She helped me develop my story and worked tirelessly editing and submitting it to publishers. I was told that after Covid, the publishing industry slowed down and editors were behind. A few nos trickled in, and some never responded. I had three new stories to publish, and with the extended time of not hearing back and feeling like I wasn’t getting anywhere, my agent decided to leave the industry, and I would be back in the query trenches yet again. Granted, I didn’t need an agent, but I wanted one because it aligned with my writing goals. 
​During the querying process, I ‘met’ a couple of agents whom I respect, and they have given me professional advice without even signing me. I truly appreciate their wisdom and understand their reason for not taking me on. Although it hurt, knowing how great we got along, business is business, and at the end of the day, I can’t forget the bottom line. 

​Over the years, I entered pitch parties. I loved seeing what authors were pitching and who liked their pitches. During a pitch for small publishers, I received a like, and it turned into an offering contract. After taking time to review, I declined the offer. It was a hard decision, but the right one. I didn’t give up querying, and I’m glad I didn’t because I have now joined the Jackson Literary Agency. Michelle is lovely and energetic. Her passion for my stories is what I want from someone willing to champion my work. I’m grateful for the opportunity to work with her and to join her team. It was perseverance, believing my stories had a place, and following my own path. As my writing journey continues to evolve, I power forward and focus on my goals. After all, no one can live a writer’s publishing journey. Every writer is unique and can only tell the story they love.

*opinions my own 

​There’s nothing like the thrill of your first published book or getting a publishing contract to make you feel like you’re on top of the world. The excitement and adrenaline rush from accomplishing a dream goal are hypnotic until after the book is out in the world. Maybe faced with mediocre reviews, being dropped by a publisher or agent—it’s part of the business, and it’s hard. So hard. Writing is an art, and art is subjective. How many times has an author heard this reminder when things aren’t going as planned?
It doesn’t matter what level of success is achieved; negativity hovers like a bad Odam.
Whatever step in publishing an author is experiencing, there are times when it feels like an accomplishment is not enough. It doesn’t matter how many books are sold or how many good reviews one has, it’s an on-going struggle. 

​Best-selling rom-com author Meredith Schorr says that for her, feeling like her level of accomplishment is not enough stems from not having another book contract right now. “While drafting my work-in-progress, it's challenging to push down the doubts that I won't get another deal because of my sales track, not being a good enough writer, etc. It feels a bit like starting over.” She added that imposter syndrome is real, telling herself her earlier books were a fluke or that she just got lucky. 
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It’s hard to feel self-doubt. It’s art, and it’s personal, especially when there have been accomplishments. 

​Fantasy and romance author, Shameez Patel ( Papathanasiou ) says, “social media makes it far too easy to compare our struggles with the wins we see posted on Instagram, etc. It's impossible to know how many late nights were spent crying, or how many rejections other authors received, when all you see are their accolades being posted. It's easy to feel as though you're the only one who is struggling. Added to that is the fast-paced industry where the goal posts keep moving, and days after your novel is published, it feels like old news and time to write the next best-seller.”

​Tracy Wideman, a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC) with a private practice in Vancouver, BC, says, “It is very human to feel not enough. Often, a part of us holds strong opinions and interpretations about our worth. It helps to humanize that part and to understand it within the broader systems that benefit from us feeling inadequate.” She explains that a helpful practice is to personify it. “To give form to the character that carries these extreme thoughts and digs into your worthiness. Often this is a self-critical voice with a well-intended strategy: to protect another part of you that fears being exposed as an imposter. You can speak to it directly and say, I see how concerned you are about me being good enough. That makes sense…you’re trying to push me forward and protect me.”

​Rejections are part of the publishing business. It happens in every stage of the publishing process. When a story you’ve poured your energy and love into doesn’t get the agent or the publisher, it’s hard not feel like a failure. The more rejections a writer gets can play heavily on the mind and lead to self-doubt, especially when it’s recurring. 
Schorr agrees and says, “For most of us, rejections do come before goals are achieved, but they don't stop there. Most authors don't sell that first book and then have smooth sailing for the rest of their publishing careers. The self-doubt doesn't go away when you sell your first book because there are trade reviews, reader reviews, sales, new book contracts to think about, and when things don't go your way, it can be soul-crushing!”

​It’s tough to share your art because there’s always going to be negative reactions.
“Writing is incredibly personal, and thicker skin is developed over the years, it's still hard to accept that something you love with all your heart may not be appreciated by others,” says Patel. “I think self-doubt plays heavily on any artist's mind, not only authors. Reading, and most art, is subjective. There is no way to ensure your work is "good" because there is no standard for what is good. There will be doubt.”
And when there’s doubt, Schorr says she tries to kill her demons from the inside out by focusing on the joy of writing, or they will always be there. “It's the only thing in my control,” she says. “I also try not to focus on what I deem a "failure" in the past and, instead, focus on what happens next and the steps I need to get to the next level. If I want to publish another book, I need to write it! I also try not to compare myself to others, but that is a daily struggle.”

​Creatives will experience self-doubt. It’s art. It’s a personal creation that is shared with others. 
“It's impossible to avoid self-doubt entirely,” says Patel. “Especially during the drafting process when you're finding the story and figuring out what works. Slowly, as it grows and gets polished, you become sure of what you've written and why you want it out in the world. In my case, I lean on my author-friends who are willing to hype me up and remind me of everything I've achieved thus far. It's essential, in my opinion, to find your cheerleaders.” 
So, how can someone feel good about themselves when art is subjective?
Wideman says, “Feeling good can come from many sources. It’s worth pausing to notice what you are giving power to when it comes to your sense of goodness. Art’s subjectivity invites us to root our sense of goodness not in external approval or consensus, but in a reflective relationship with our values and their impact.”

​Wideman suggests building on the idea of responsiveness.
“You might ask: Is there an inner tuning fork that feels aligned with your art-making? Or is your work primarily in service to external sources of validation, like the systems that tell you what is in or out? These systems often uphold a privileged status quo that bypasses deeper questions of meaning, responsibility, and whose voices are being amplified or left out.”
There’s a level of joy in making art and seeing the end result; however, the experience can bring  mixed emotions. 
“Sometimes you feel good, and sometimes you feel really awful,” says Wideman. “When we focus only on art as a final product, we miss what the process itself offers to the life of the artist. And in the end, even if your art isn’t “good,” you are still okay.”
Working on self-doubt, Schorr says it’s important to enjoy the writing process. “Make sure you're passionate about what you're writing, even while keeping the market in mind. No matter what happens with a book, you don't want to look back on the months you spent writing it and recall hating every second. I've had books die on submission or not get green-lit by my agent, but because I loved almost every second of the writing process, it wasn't time wasted.”  
Success can be measured in different ways. Some might say money, material things, or prominence in the world. How can someone measure their own success?
Wideman says, “It is understandable that we desire validation. It can feel deeply affirming when we have access to systems that reward us, when things line up, and success is mirrored back to us. But when they don’t, we may find we’ve handed the outside world the authority to determine our value on the inside.” Wideman explains that if we allow the final judge of whether we are successful or not, we give away our power to something that was never designed to hold our humanity.

​She suggests a writer may ask: How am I responding to my life with awareness? Am I taking responsibility for the stories I choose to tell and how I tell them? Am I listening to what wants to be expressed through my writing, rather than only to what is most likely to be rewarded? How do I feel about how I’ve responded to the creative call of my life?
Answering these questions, Wideman says, “When success is measured this way, it becomes less dependent on external validation, which often privileges particular versions of creativity over others. Even if the world has not deemed you successful by its standards, you still have your inner compass: your values, choices, freedom, and awareness. From that place of orientation, you’re not proving your worth -- you’re living from it.”
Allowing your art to be shared is a beautiful gift. It’s an expression, it’s a deep yearning to create something that means something special to you. If you choose to make and share your art, it’s an accomplishment.
Patel says an author’s accomplishments are enough. 
“I understand that saying that doesn't change how you feel, but I'll say it anyway. If it's the best you can do, it's enough. Whether you're writing 200 words a day or 2000. It's your best, and your best will always be enough because writing isn't about anyone else. It's about you.”

Tracy Wideman is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC) with a private practice in Vancouver, BC. https://www.tracywideman.com/

Shameez Patel https://www.shameezwrites.com/
Her newest romcom, Next Level Love. When two people find out their online crushes are actually their IRL enemies, they must figure out a way to work with each other in this charming and geeky enemies-to-lovers romcom perfect for fans of Olivia Dade.
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​Meredith Schorr, https://meredithschorr.com/ 
Room Mating, Sizzling chemistry and tender friendship develops between two accidental roommates in this hilarious rom-com. For fans of Lynn Painter and Falon Ballard.

​Hello 2026! Every year, it’s the same deal: make resolutions, plan goals, and/or find a word to define your mindset for the next twelve months. The beginning of a new year is also a defining time to make a change. A time to acknowledge and be self-aware of what we need for self-improvement. 
 
If you need help setting your new year’s goals, you’re not alone.
 
In December, I didn’t reach a few of my goals. It wasn’t from a lack of trying—getting an agent is partly out of my control— but I realized I had been so hopeful and working toward the one thing I really wanted that I neglected to acknowledge the good things I did with my time. The things that make me happy: I published two books, I discovered metal-stamping, and I’m succeeding on my fitness journey.

​To bring in the new year, I decided to reflect on the small victories, and I opened a bottle of Veuve Clicquot Brut to acknowledge my accomplishments. I was saving the bottle for a special time when signing with an agent or landing a publishing contract was worthy of raising a glass. The bottle was gifted to me years ago, and I couldn’t bring myself to open it without a reason. A validated reason, one that could be life changing. If I had kept it, it would soon expire, and then I’d miss out on the luxury of enjoying such a fine bottle. 
 
If you have good intentions to create new goals or to use your word to define the year, planning and writing it down is a good start to make change. Acknowledging what you want helps create a positive mindset. 
You’ve heard of SMART goals, right? Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-bound. 
Be specific about what you want to achieve. 

Get an Agenda
There’s nothing that sparks my creativity more than having new stationery. Pretty pens, pencils, and paper with designs and colourful sticky notes bring joy to the page and the mind. Reading it daily reminds you of the path you’re on. 

Further reading on the benefits of agendas, click here.

​Write it down.
Whether you use an agenda or a desk calendar, write down your task. It’s why to-do lists work. You write it down, check it off when it’s complete, and there’s a feeling of accomplishment. 
It also makes you accountable for your actions. For example, if you need to write a novel by a certain date, work backwards on a calendar, so you know how many words you need to write daily to achieve the goal.

​Track your progress
At the end of the day, make sure you’re accomplishing your goal at a pace that works for you. It’s easy to keep adding to the to-dos, but if it’s hard to change a schedule or the amount of work is too much, adjust the goal. It’s better to have a smaller goal and tick it off your list than stress and not accomplish anything.
 
Good attitude
Making realistic goals is key. As an author, I’ve had ups and downs, but what I’ve learned is that you can’t control other people’s opinions and decisions. Getting an agent or a publishing contract is hard. Selling a manuscript can take months or years, and even if it gets picked up, there’s no guarantee how well it might do when it's published. It’s always the unknown, and as much as one can work toward the goal, it’s all about timing and a little luck. So, when rejection becomes common, the one thing you don’t have to lose is attitude. Staying positive will help motivate you to keep on going and maybe try something new.

​You’re not alone
Surround yourself with people who are rooting for you. It might be one person, or five. It doesn’t matter. Having a cheerleader in your life who wants to hear the good and the bad will keep you going. 
Let’s face it, writing is a lonely profession, so keeping in touch with those who are supportive and who are cheering for you even when you’re losing hope.
 
Find a hobby
Creative people love dreaming up new ideas. When a story isn’t coming together, doing something else for distraction when you're disappointed or unfocused helps. It will help motivate and can even trigger new ideas. Do you ever go for a walk, and something will pop into your mind you weren’t even thinking about? When you’re stuck on ideas and allow yourself to relax, it gives you the time to think without effort.
 
Reward
You don’t have to buy something or toast a beverage to acknowledge your accomplishment; taking a moment to reflect on your goal brings a sense of pride. Enjoy a cup of tea, call a friend, or read a new story. Do whatever brings you happiness in your day.
Let’s move into the new year with hope, positive thinking and hard work to reach those goals. 

Acknowledge your accomplishments and celebrate the small victories. 
It’s the perfect time.
 
* Opinions are my own 

It’s not just self-care; it’s self-care with holiday vibes. 
If December has you stressed, there’s no better time than to focus on your health during the holidays. Staying physically healthy is one thing, but we also need to stay mentally strong to get us through the late nights, the extra socializing, family gatherings, and indulging in more goodies than usual. 
This is where festive self-care comes in.
We all need to take time for ourselves, whether it’s five minutes or twenty. Taking a moment to enjoy a cup of coffee, sitting down to read a chapter of a book, or calling a friend will give you the break you need. 
If you want to explore self-care further, some might suggest treating yourself to a small indulgence for the sake of self-care.
Bestselling romance author Jennifer Shirk posted on Instagram recently that buying books is a form of festive self-care. How perfect is that? It doesn’t matter if it’s a peppermint latte or a new mug; everyone’s perspective is different. Self-care means something unique to everyone. Add a little festive cheer to your book buying (a holiday romance, anyone?) or get fingernails painted like candy canes like Olivia’s in my book, The Twelve Gifts of Christmas—and you’ve got some festive self-care!

​Whatever your self-care routine is, or if you’re looking to change it up, making time to do something you love is key. Take the time to indulge in a hobby or work on a puzzle, read a blog post, or bake some cookies. Whatever you find comforting is a great way to enjoy 'you' time. 
This past year, I’ve written and published two romance books, revised two new books, and learned how to metal stamp. It’s given me the creative space I need from writing when my story isn’t flowing the way I want it to, or I can’t get the words down, and I’m stuck on a plot. Being creative can lead to so many other outlets. It’s just a matter of exploration and allowing the freedom to enjoy. It doesn’t mean you have to be an expert; it means you are enjoying your time and you’re open to relaxation. Whether it’s painting, gardening, knitting, or cooking—it’s an art, and when you have constant sparks of inspiration and an imagination, you find a place you’re most comfortable. 
During the holiday season, get comfortable with your art and support it with good sleep, 
eating nutritious foods, sipping water throughout the day, and exercising. Doing what you enjoy is the best refresher and pairing it with a good health routine is something you can feel good about. 

Christmas is one of my favourite holidays. I love the gatherings, the comfort foods and seasonal treats- pumpkin pie, anyone? The way my children’s faces light up when they see someone they love or open a gift they’ll treasure. The pure joy and anticipation become a live wire, and I’m here for it. Knowing it’s a limited time for celebrating, cramming all the to-dos—visiting friends, attending sports games and parties, into a few weeks is what adds to the excitement.
It’s what got me thinking about writing a holiday romance. I wanted to write a story with mystery, time constraints, and make it as sweet as butter tarts. Stir it together for a quick read and you’ve got yourself a holiday novella.

The Twelve Gifts of Christmas is not just for the sweet romance; it’s for the kindness and joy of giving I wanted to portray. I love featuring characters with heart and humour. I hope you enjoy Olivia Parker’s story.

If you’re wondering, this character wasn’t created in a spur of the moment. Rewind, a year ago, Kobo had an open call for authors to submit their holiday romance novellas. I hadn’t written a holiday romance before but wanted it, so it was the perfect way to brainstorm and push myself to write something new. I started plotting. It needed to be a Canadian setting, and I wanted to write about what I know, so I set it in Vancouver, BC. With the looming high cost of living, I knew it would be a good plot point. As it started with the heroine living in a shabby old apartment building. I wanted her to be jolly and grateful for what she has, even though she dreams of something more; she has hope. I asked the question: What would make a happy, hopeful person who loves Christmas more joyful? Giving, of course! I already knew my heroine, Oliva Parker, was a personal shopper and she loved buying and wrapping gifts, so what if she delivered a gift to a grumpy guy and was taken aback by his curtness and unrelatable personality? 
Once I started writing about Olivia’s gift delivery, I had to get her and Mr. Grumpy to keep meeting multiple times until they became friends. The letters were a sure way to keep them together. 
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I considered making this story a full novel, but sometimes a quick read is all we can manage and still get the holiday romance vibe we’re craving. 
I hope you enjoy The Twelve Gifts of Christmas. 
Whatever your plans are this season, I hope it’s filled with good food, hope and the people you love. Happy Holidays!